Dream a little dream

Everyone has a dream to pursue, a goal to achieve in life. What's yours? :) Many times,we got lost along the way or because of failures we've stopped to believe that our dreams will be achieved one day, somehow rather. For me, i have come to believe that we as human beings born with certain talents and capabilities and we can do great things! All of us are able to do something in life and be good at it but it depends on our own initiatives. Having dreams to me means nothing because it is without actions, it's a empty. We were born with talents and we are exposed to aspirations each day for us to dream big but we can't be who we wanna be if we just stay stagnant and do nothing. 

I believe in success. i believe everyone can be as successful but it requires a lot of hard work and determination. We just need to find our strength and work on it. Besides that, i believe behind every success there is a purpose, a purpose to set a good example, a purpose to inspire, a purpose to leave a legacy behind. Many times, we wanna be rich, famous and etc but we do not have a purpose behind all these and when we finally attained our goals, we can't feel the happiness somehow rather we feel empty. Life is not about getting all we want, chasing dreams, chasing fame, chasing money..It is beyond all these, there is a purpose behind all these that we should know. 

Let's set a dream, live happily and make a difference. For me, my purpose behind every dreams that i have is to make a difference. I am sure you are too! :) 

Be humble, be kind and share love in every ways. 

XOXO

Janice Yong

Love

LOVE..

How should I start? I was a super naïve girl when I was younger. I used to thought love is everything and love is always sweet. Do you still remember your first love? That kind of sweet and innocent love is wonderful. Until today, i am still wondering if am i able to find that kind of love? In this world full of temptations? break-ups seemed to be part of life and flings are everywhere. Keeps me wondering what holds a relationship? ( Feel free to share with me:p)

At this moment, i am in a position where i find love is fragile. Maybe it is due to my past experiences and past hurts made me who i am today. I am stronger than before yet i still feel insecure at times.

I figured that the process of love is the same it is just the person you being with is different( if you happened to have several failed relationships, you will get what i mean). At times, we thought by breaking up with a particular person and get hooked up with another individual will solve our problem. Yes maybe in the early stage, the infatuation stage where everything seems perfect and romance starts to kick in. But in the later stage, when things start to be imperfect, flaws everywhere...Oh my there's when we think twice like is he the right one? Oh no!! How?? Should i end this again?

Well,I think love is a decision and commitment. When two individuals come together is when they set a decision to love. If we have the right mentality of love that it is about commitment, we won't give up so easily. We just gotta accept the fact that nobody is perfect and it is hard to find someone who is compatible for you. Trust me, this whole chemistry thingy is an energizer that keeps both connected.

Appreciate your loved ones and stay faithful. Only then you will reap good fruits. :) In my opinion, true love does exists only if both willing to work for it. Readers, i hope you will find happiness and a good life time partner. My blessings are for you. xx

Love,
Janice Yong

A passion that leaves a mark in your life

What does passion really means when you have to encounter different stages of life each and everyday. We are constantly fighting for something, fighting to be someone, fighting to be successful and so on and forth. Comes to think about it, are we living the life we want to or are we just follow anybody else's footsteps? Are we happy with our work? Are we passionate we the things we do daily?

At times in life, we get lost and vulnerable. We get sacred because we do not know where we belong to and who we really are. We are so tense up because we are so pure at heart and innocent that when we start up something in life we will be in the positive lane. But, reality hits us.. No, you are bound to failures again and again. So, when people tell me if you have a passion to pursue something, you will not give up but fight for it and it got me thinking if it's really the case i will try doing something i really passionate about and see the outcome of it. 

So, i then started to try something i love to do. I love baking and i love to see the happy faces when they taste my cakes. I just love the feeling of making others happy at the same time being able to create some delicious cakes to unleash the creativity in me, at least. :)  I realized that, yes passion drives motivation but passion isn't enough. If you have the passion but low in determination in the things you do, you will quit soonest. To me, it is a myth to believe that having passion means we are able to reach the destiny we want to be in.  I think we have to be patient and determine in order to succeed.  

There's a saying beauty fades. Well, i gotta say passion fades. Today, i can be so passionate about baking and maybe few months later i find it boring. So, what's next? See, in everything we do in life, we must not only know what we are passionate about but also to know how to keep our passion alive. To sums it all up, passion needs to be accompanied with strength, hard work, determination and attitude. 

I've always admire entrepreneurs because they not only need to take care of the business itself, they have to maintain the relationship with the people they are working with. They have to constantly remind themselves of what makes them do what they do and how can they possibly see the future in the things they do. It is ain't easy. But i guess it is because they not only have the passion/drive but the put their heart and soul to it. :) 

Hang in there folks. You are one step closer to your dream. Press on. Cheers!

Love,

Janice Yong