Love

LOVE..

How should I start? I was a super naïve girl when I was younger. I used to thought love is everything and love is always sweet. Do you still remember your first love? That kind of sweet and innocent love is wonderful. Until today, i am still wondering if am i able to find that kind of love? In this world full of temptations? break-ups seemed to be part of life and flings are everywhere. Keeps me wondering what holds a relationship? ( Feel free to share with me:p)

At this moment, i am in a position where i find love is fragile. Maybe it is due to my past experiences and past hurts made me who i am today. I am stronger than before yet i still feel insecure at times.

I figured that the process of love is the same it is just the person you being with is different( if you happened to have several failed relationships, you will get what i mean). At times, we thought by breaking up with a particular person and get hooked up with another individual will solve our problem. Yes maybe in the early stage, the infatuation stage where everything seems perfect and romance starts to kick in. But in the later stage, when things start to be imperfect, flaws everywhere...Oh my there's when we think twice like is he the right one? Oh no!! How?? Should i end this again?

Well,I think love is a decision and commitment. When two individuals come together is when they set a decision to love. If we have the right mentality of love that it is about commitment, we won't give up so easily. We just gotta accept the fact that nobody is perfect and it is hard to find someone who is compatible for you. Trust me, this whole chemistry thingy is an energizer that keeps both connected.

Appreciate your loved ones and stay faithful. Only then you will reap good fruits. :) In my opinion, true love does exists only if both willing to work for it. Readers, i hope you will find happiness and a good life time partner. My blessings are for you. xx

Love,
Janice Yong